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| Fri, 04-15-2005 - 12:13pm |
Hello, I have posted on here before but not in this section.
Well,My husband and I have been together since 2-4-05. Before that we had a rocky relationship, I didn't really trust him and he was a big party guy and that wasn't what i wanted. But i kept on with him, i really don't know why but all of a sudden with a blink of an eye,I was married to him, now 2 months down the road, im stuck, he has changed ALOT but i still remember the old days the way he used to be and it makes me sick to my stomach sometimes so sick that I treat him bad and it turns into this big fight , that usually ends up in me leaving , him calling me for 2 hours and then me going back and him apologizing. It is always thigs same routine and Im sick of it.
Im sick of fighting Im sick of all the Im sorry's all of the time and im just sick of him.
Right now my only option is getting a divorce but when i think about it my stomach starts turning again, and I keep accepting his apologies and i just keep loving him, but i don't understand, im sick of him but i can't live without him.
What do i do?.. ive tried talking to him all it leads to is promises and Im sorry's , that will later be broken and will later be accepted, so what other alternative can I take with him that will not lead in a divorce but will lead into making this situation better? Thanks for all the input you can give me.

You have
Have you tried talking to him without judging and without fighting and with trying to truly understand what the other is saying.
Steffy
CO-cl of Is It Meant to Be?