Ex got married, why not me...
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| Mon, 04-25-2005 - 12:18pm |
Does it hurt when you find out an ex has gotten married? Not any ex, but an ex you had deep feelings for/ was in love with and you both didn't have a bad breakup just situation and circumstance made you have to go your seperate ways. Do you wonder what could have been between you two?
I ask, because I found out an ex had gotten married I was very happy for him. He is doing great where he is and then I conversation as usual got to how we were and we laughed and had our good times as usual. This is someone I never lost contact with and knew he was dating and everything. But, when we finished talking my head got to going. I started thinking of some instances we had talked about when were together and how if I would have done this then he'd be with me and there. I soon snapped out of it because neither of us may not be where we are or who we are now if our paths had never crossed or became as good of friends as we have. So I just wondered how others felt when they find out, do the wonder or am I just crazy like that, lol...



i felt very numb when i found out my x was getting married. It is a jagged little pill to swollow, that's for sure. However, be thankfull that you guys are still friends, you are obviously still important to him as he is to you. time of course will heal all pain. sometimes it just takes longer than you would like.
you are not alone in this. i dare say that all us women are pretty much the same.
good luck, chin up
Reba
I am not really friends with any of my x's, and therefore, don't know if any of them have ever married or remarried. HOWEVER, if I heard about my x's remarrying, depending on which ones they were, would I care.
But to be honest, I think I have moved on enough, that I wouldn't care, and wouldn't feel any sort of hurt/pain etc.
However, I would never assume, cuz you never know, I may break down and cry. lol.