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Need a translator......
| Wed, 04-27-2005 - 12:08am |
Hello all. Briefly, I've been dating a guy for 8 months. We have been exclusive, however, we have not had "the talk" nor have we used the "L" word. He's 40 and I'm 39 (as of yesterday). He signed my birthday card "Lots of love". Is this his way of say "I love you, but I'm afraid to admit it?"

L-O-V-E. A four letter word. Actions are best at knowing if someone cares for you. Why would throwing the word LOVE around prove anything anyways?
"L-O-V-E. A four letter word. Actions are best at knowing if someone cares for you. Why would throwing the word LOVE around prove anything anyways?"
I'd say ask him or wait for the words.
My dbf, while we were "dating casually" said to me, "you know I love you, but if you ever wear that, I'm going to have to walk away and laugh" but he wasn't in love with me. He would also sign his emails, "love, K" and well, he wasn't IN love with me, but he did care about me a lot.
Hence, in his world, "i love you" wasn't the same as what he said to me before.