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| Tue, 05-03-2005 - 8:58am |
Well this is my problem. I think i am in love and i have been for the past year but it seems to be all changing. I'll start at the begining, a month ago my 41yr old uncle died suddenly. Now i am a catholic family and his funeral was a catholic one, my b/f is not catholic and didn't come to the funeral, he only came over to see my family once to say he was "sorry for our loss". My uncle died on the Thurs and on the following Tues my b/f completely fell out with my brothers arguing with them over nothing in particular, well 2bh it seemed like a wee bit of joking got out of hand, but still i think my b/f was out of order in this circumstance considering my bros were grieving and i think my b/f should've been there for me at my uncles funeral regardless of religion as there were plenty of non catholics there. We have been togethr for 14mths now and are going on holiday soon and i want it to work out but i seem to be falling out of love we've had a chat and had a massive fall out but it just doesn't feel right again. What would any1 else do?! Please help cos i'm jsut at that stage where i want it to be all good again cos my b/f is an all round great guy and i wouldn't have been with him so long otherwise but he has to get on with my family thats true isnt it?!
Can anyone give me some advise?!
L xx
Can anyone give me some advise?!
L xx

I was wondering, are you "falling out of love" because of the recent events, or because of other things? Also, is your bf friends with your brothers? Or do you think things just got out of hand?
A few other things.
Death. Some people are NOT comfortable around death. Some people make jokes to feel more comfy (even if inappropriate). Some people don't know how to act "appropriately". Maybe your dbf is that type of guy.
L xx