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Where did I go wrong?
| Sun, 07-24-2005 - 5:24pm |
HI! ITS BEEN A FEW YEARS SINCE I'VE BEEN ON HERE. I REMEMBER THE SITE WAS WOMEN.COM. ANYWAYS I MISS THE MESSAGE BOARDS & CHATS WITH OTHER WOMEN ONLINE. MY ISSUE IS LIKE EVERY WOMAN'S ISSUE. MEN. HERE'S MY ISSUE. FEEL FREE TO GIVE ME ADVICE AND YOUR OPINIONS BECAUSE I CAN'T MAKE SINCE OF THIS. I MEANT THIS GUY. HE WAS SO INTO ME AND ME VICE VERSA. WE WERE TOGETHER FOR ONLY A MONTH. HIS MOM AND ROOMMATE WAS SAYING HOW PRETTY I WAS AND HOW HE'S NEVER BEEN INTO ANYONE LIKE HE WAS WITH ME.ANYWAYS, HERE IS WHAT HAPPENED. TWO WEEKS AGO EXACTLY, WE'RE HANING OUT. HE WAS TICKLING ME AND JUST BEING REALLY INTO ME LIKE ALWAYS. (ALSO I WASN'T TALKING TO ANY OTHER GUYS, BECAUSE I WAS SO HAPPY WITH HIM, BUT I STILL HAD GUYS CALLING MY PHONE THAT BASICALLY DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE TO STOP CALLING ME) ANYWAYS ME AND MY MAN ARE HANGING OUT. MY PHONE RINGS. HE DECIDES TO SEE WHO IT IS. IT WAS SOME GUY WHO I DIDN'T TALK TOO ANYMORE. HE GOT SO MAD, HE BASICALLY KICKED ME OUT HIS HOUSE AND I HAVEN'T TALKED TO HIM SINCE. I WAS SHOCK THINKING THIS CAN'T BE HAPPENING FOR HIM TO REACT LIKE THAT AND JUST WRITE ME OFF. HE CALLED ME A BITCH, TRIFLING, AND HOW I'M JUST LIKE EVERY OTHER FEMALE, A BITCH. WHAT I CAN'T GET OVER IS HOW HE SO MIS JUDGED ME. I'M NIETHER OF THOSE THINGS, AND I THOUGHT HE HAD SEEM THAT. I AM SUCH A SWEETHEART. SOME OF MY THINGS ARE STILL OVER HIS HOUSE. I REALLY WANT HIM TO HAVE REGRETS. I CAN SEE HIM GETTING MADE BUT HIM TO JUST END THINGS LIKE THAT WAS BEYOND ME.HE TOLDME THE RELATIONSHIP WAS HIS MISTAKE AND HOW I HAVE BEEN WASTING HIS TIME THIS WHOLE TIME. I REALLY COULDN'T BELIEVE WHAT WAS HAPPENING AND THE THINGS HE SAID TO ME. HE WOULD TAKE ME OUT. HE'D HOLD MY HAND.I PRACTICALLY LIVED THERE. HE'D CALL ME BABY. EVERYTHING WAS GOING SO GOOD. THE PART THAT BOTHERS ME MOST IS HIM TELLING HIS MOM & ROOMMATE WHAT HAPPENED AND FOR THEM TO THINK BADLY OF ME. SOMETIMES I THINK ABOUT ACTUALLY GOING TO HIS MOM'S JOB AND SPEAKING TO HER BECAUSE SHE LOVED ME. BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. ITS BEEN TWO WEEKS. I THINK WILL I EVER HERE FROM HIM AGAIN. I WANT TO GET THE REST OF MY THINGS BUT I CAN'T BRING MYSELF TO CALL HIM OR EVEN SHOW UP AT HIS PLACE. THE NIGHT THIS HAPPENED, I TRIED TO EXPALIN BUT HE JUST WAS SO DAMN HARD HEADED AND WOULDN'T GIVE ME A CHANCE EITHER WAY. HE JUST WANTED ME TO LEAVE. I KEPT TRYING TO TALK TO HIM BUT HE LITERALLY SHUT THE DOOR IN MY FACE. WHEN THAT HAPPENED I WAS REALLY SHOCKED. I NEVER HAD THAT HAPPEN TO ME BEFORE. HE WAS EVERYTHING I WANTED. HE WAS MOTIVATED, CHARISMATIC, GOOD LOOKS, GREAT PHYSIQUE. I'M TALL SO HE COULD ACTUALLY PICKME UP WITH NO PROBLEM. I REALLY THOUGHT WE WOULD STAY TOGETHER FOR A WHILE. I REALLY FEEL IT WAS HIS MISTAKE. I HATE THE FACT THAT HE REALLY JUST STOP SEEING ME ABRUPTLY LIKE THAT BECAUSE OF SOMETHING THAT HE THOUGHT WAS GOING ON BUT WAS NEVER THE CASE AT ALL. ITS FUNNY BECUASE A FEW DAYS BEFORE THIS HAPPENED I WAS TELLING A FRIEND OF MINE OF HOW GOOD THINGS WERE AND HOW HE COMPLIMENTS ME. I HAVE NEVER SAID THAT ABOUT ANY GUY.AFTER HIM SHUTTING THE DOOR ON MY FACE I REALLY DON'T HAVE THE NERVE TO EVEN CONTACT HIM, NOT EVEN TO GET THE FEW THINGS I STILL HAVE OVER THERE. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO THINK ANYMORE. I THINK IF THIS PERSON WOULDN'T HAVE CALLED THEN NONE OF THIS WOULD HAVE HAPPENED IN THE FIRST PLACE. SOMETIMES I FELL LIKE I MESSED UP, BUT THEN I THINK HOW? HE MESSED UP FOR JUMPING TO CONCLUSIONS. I TREATED HIM SO GOOD. I REALLY DID. I WAS NOTHING BUT A SWEETHEART TO HIM, SO FOR HIM TO END THINGS THE WAY HE DID IT BLOWS ME MIND.

This guy is a complete nutter, and you're well to be out of the relationship. Be glad you found out sooner rather than later.
By the way, a word of advice. Don't type with your caps lock on. It's hard to read and is considered to be SHOUTING. Not the done thing in most public forums ;-)