Is it wrong to have feeling for...

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Registered: 09-18-2004
Is it wrong to have feeling for...
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Wed, 07-27-2005 - 10:30pm

Ok, I think I have feelings for my stepmom's nephew... and I think he's interested in me. I guess he could be called my step-cousin. Is that wrong? Should I just ignore my feelings on this one?

EDIT: He is NOT blood-related.




Edited 7/28/2005 12:35 am ET ET by whiterose16
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Registered: 08-10-2003
Thu, 07-28-2005 - 12:30am
If he's blood related I would stay away, if he's not then go ahead.
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Registered: 07-29-2004
Thu, 07-28-2005 - 2:44am
my advice would be to take it slow. keep in mind that if you hook up with him and it doesn't work out, you're still going to have to see him at family functions for the rest of your life... so just get to know him first on a friendship level. don't get into a romantic relationship until you're pretty sure it's going to last.
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Registered: 08-18-2003
Thu, 07-28-2005 - 3:38pm

I agree with Maria.

~~ Steffy ~~
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Registered: 04-07-2005
Fri, 07-29-2005 - 4:49pm

I don't feel there is anything wrong with that but you might want to take a good hard look at the family dynamics and make sure it doesn't ruffle some feathers. Otherwise, I wish you luck.

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