bad party

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Registered: 09-09-2004
bad party
Tue, 08-23-2005 - 6:05pm
Last night my on-again off-again boyfriend of many years were at a friends birthday party together. He was incredibly sweet the entire night... held me, hugged me...kissed me.. treated me very well.
At one point in the evening we were sititng on the floor together with a few ppl talking, and he all of a sudden decided to lift up my shirt, with all the people in the room.
I was extremely embarrassed... and i have no idea why he did that.
I became very upset, and i left the party immediately.
He said he thought he was being playful, and that he had no intention of hurting me... and im not 100% convinced. He has apologized, and promised he would never do it again.. and he has never done anything like this before.
Do i just figure out a way to get over this?
what do you guys (and girls) think??