Pressure?
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Pressure?
| Wed, 01-04-2006 - 2:50pm |
I have seen on here in a few posts about pressure. I was wondering how you feel you can pressure a guy. I have seen many guys pressure each other but never have I seen or heard a guy say “oh, well man she pressured me.” Especially when it comes down to things like being in a relationship, getting married, deciding to date you, or to say I love you. If I am wrong, do feel me in and any guys out there that have felt obligated to do any of these because a woman asked you, gave you an ultimatum, or decided to leave because you wouldn’t comply please respond. For the women, why do you feel that expressing yourself is pressuring the guy?


My take on this one is that, a guy feels cornered or trapped. But I also think that if he is worth your love and the relationship is worth having, it may only be a temporary state, and that he will stick around, or come back around if he really wants you in his life.
I stuck it out for months with mine, knowing that i wasnt the only woman in his life. He knew I didnt want that and that it hurt me. It took him a few months, but he finally made the choice to give me what I wanted, because he knew if he didnt, he would most likely lose me from his life! AND yes he would have!