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*** BAD DAY *****
| Sun, 01-22-2006 - 6:57am |
Hi all
Well today feel really bad - been a few weeks now since I split up with the ex and really have woke up this morning missing him like crazy. I find it totally bizarre !!!! i know he didn't treat me right and I finished it with him. feel so upset and lonely today and again sit here and wonder did I make the right decision.
why do we feel like this??? - he is still contantly on my mind - think Im going crazy !!!
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You're just grieving your relationship. I'd also lay money that you're missing 'what could have been' rather than what you actually had.
Get out more. See your friends, keep busy, find a new hobby
good luck.
Thats right. Get out with a friend or two. One of the best days I had when I was feeling like you, I took my daughter shopping, we ate lunch out, got our nails done for fun and at the end of the day I remember thinking "wow I didnt think of him all day". And yet I hadn't really wanted to go. It was my daughter's urging to go DO something that made me go. I went for her, and got something out of it for myself in the end! :)
It really does help to get out and do something just for yourself that you enjoy!
Hi
Thanks for all the advice. I must say I am feeling much better - I still have good days and bad days but I am not constantly thinking about him anymore.
This board has really helpled - again big thank you for all your advice.
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