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| Tue, 01-24-2006 - 2:17am |
So where do i start.. About a year ago.. i met a guy named Sean. He was back for about 2 weeks or so since he's in the navy and is stationed all the way in California. When he left we talked on the fone pretty much every night for the next copple of months.. He then lied to me abotu somethign and kept denyign and so i just shut him out.. He returned again in June and since we have the same friends we chilled at the same places. We ended up patching things up and everything was fine.. but on his last night he ended up getting a little too touchy with one of the girls at some party.. i nkow it was just dancing and stuff but it was a little too much.. but w.e i ignored it and at the end of the night everythign was fine.. He came back again this December.. for newyrs and everythign.. And i was sure that iw as over him for quite a while.. but he kept trying to talk to me and he was trying really hard to get my attention.. i finally gave in... we chilled copple of times.. and i was sure that i was pretty much in love.. and before all this started i todl him i didnt want to have anything with him because he has two years left in the navy and i get to see him twise a year. its horrible. on the last night i saw him everythign was perfect... i feel like hes osmeone i could be with for a very long time.. but the distance just kills everything... but just recently.. ive met this guy named Lance.. and he is scuh a wonderful guy.. he knwos abotu Sean and kills him because he likes me alot.. I like Lance al ot as well but the fact that Sean is coming back in 5 days is the problem... Last tiem sean was here i sort of made him promise hewas going to come back the same month because he could and i was going to miss him so much.. i did.. and i stilld o.. but i just cant decide.. i nkwo ill lose Lance if i hang out with Sean.. and Seans biggest reason for coming back this time was because of me.. but once hes gone after thes ten days he might be gone for a whoel year before i get to see him.. im really confsued.. i dont know what to do... please help...

I say.. don't waste your time on sean.. even though he's a freat guy it's not a life for you to see him 2 times a year.. if you are meant to be then you'll be when he's out of the army. You need to tell him this, that you care about him but that you can't give up your life for him.
Lance sounds like a nice guy and go for him. If you don't I'm afraid you'll regret it. Take a chance. Listen to your heart, what do you want the most? Don't let your brain guide you, just because he's coming just to see you. It was a long time a go and you haven't promised him anything.
You need to be rbave to listen to your heart, but do it!
good luck!