am i being selfish?
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am i being selfish?
| Tue, 01-31-2006 - 10:10pm |
before me and my bf started dating we were best friends and hung out all the time. then we started to date and everyone keeps telling me we arent together because we want to be but only because we spent so much time together. i thought all that mattered was us being happy *which we are!* but all this talk is makin me think!! what do you guys think??

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As strange and unusual as this thing I'm about to tell you is....it is true.
Two people I know, have been best friends for 5 years. Then, he asked her to marry her. She said yes. In an instant they went from best friends to being engaged. They are still married.
Don't allow others to choose for you. If you feel happy with him, in love, and things are good, there is nothing better in this world, than being in love with your best friend. And being best friends first, even better.
BTW, most couples, who are "good friends" tend to hang out together all the time. It's the most natural thing to do.
What do I think?
I think, why in the world are you listening to these twits of negativity instead of believing what you see with your own eyes and know with your own heart? And then I think, what kind of lousey people in your life are such downers that they have to try and suck the happiness you have out of you? And then I start to think that I wonder what benefit it is to these twits of negativity to keep you from your happiness...what do they get out of your misery?
That's what I think.