How soon is to soon?

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Registered: 03-19-2003
How soon is to soon?
Wed, 02-15-2006 - 2:18pm

How soon is to soon for you to get a Valentine gift from someone your dating? What is Valentine mean to you, how about to your mate?


I have read a couple posts of women disappointed in their mate not doing more to acknowledge the day. I wonder if it is to soon or not? Also what comes to mind to me is "it is a day of love". Always have been to me. You went to school you gave your crush the best card because that was the extent of love to you. When you grew up it was your first love, then it was the person you dated that you loved. Maybe I missed out on a lot of gifts because I did not expect gifts nor gave them unless I loved them. I look at the gifts they sell, all says "I Love You". So how can you get someone a bear when they all say that. Especially when you can like a person but not be in love with them. I mean I may be rambling here but would love to hear others thoughts on this.

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