loving the wrong person

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Registered: 01-29-2004
loving the wrong person
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Mon, 02-27-2006 - 2:41am
I'm afraid that i am falling in love with a guy who is just going to break my heart. i wish i could stop myself, but as much as i've tried, i can't seem to help falling harder and harder for him. i dont want to be one of those girls who thinks she can change a man, but i also dont know how much longer i can go just constantly thinking about him. i cant sleep because i just keep running through my head the things i should do or say, and its starting to make me just cry all night long
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Registered: 10-20-2005
Mon, 02-27-2006 - 5:17am

Lindsay,

Whats the story here? Why do you think this guy is gonna break your heart? Is he married, involved with someone else, the non committal type????

Unfortunately we cant always control our emotions and things happen. Ive been seperated from my H for the past 18 months, divorce to be final anytime now. I met a guy last June, tried to keep it simple, because I wanted to start dating, but didnt want anything more than that. Well my heart took over and I too fell in love, and all the time I was sure it was the wrong guy. Im working right now at stepping back a little, so I can spend more time working on my own issues. But just as I step back, he steps forward!! LOL

Post us more details.

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Registered: 01-29-2004
Mon, 02-27-2006 - 4:43pm
basically, this guy and i had a thing last summer. nothing committed because at the time it wasnt possible for me to be in a relationship with him, but we did make our feelings very clear. well, i recently found out that he slept with another girl during that time. now, i dont think he really even likes this girl, but he and she keep hooking up for meaningless purposes. my friend told me its possible that he only hooked up with her because a relationship with me was impossible, and i want to believe that, but you know... anyway, even though i had no claim to him and he and i werent exclusive, i guess i just hoped he would have had strong enough feelings for me to wait.