dont know what to do

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Registered: 04-26-2006
dont know what to do
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Wed, 05-31-2006 - 8:45pm
Hi everyone im confused, can someone help. my ex boyfriend kicked me out when i was 3 months preganat with his baby im 5 months now, when we were together i let him borrow a lump sum of money he wrote up a agreament that he would pay me back. when he first borrowed the money he said he would pay me back the end of summer now he says he is not gonna pay me until the baby is borned. do you think he is stringing me along or do you think he just wants to waite until the baby is born to get back with me please help.thanks
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 06-01-2006 - 7:38am

sweet12006...

A few thoughts from Pianoguy:

If you're holding a SIGNED WRITTEN AGREEMENT from your b/f....show it to a lawyer or legal advisor whom you trust. You'll probably receive some very good suggestions as to how to recover your money?

Also...you might want to contact the human services department in your town? Perhaps they can help you with a few suggestions connected with financial assistance involving your pregnancy?

But whatever you do...DON'T GO BACK TO THE BOYFRIEND! Not only does he want to put your emotional health in jeopardy, but (lord knows) what other crap he'll pull on you after your baby is born?

He sounds like a complete loser to me!

Pianoguy

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Registered: 04-26-2006
Thu, 06-01-2006 - 8:42am
Thank you so much,he is a loser any man that can kick his girlfriend out beaing preganant is no man.
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Registered: 04-29-2004
Thu, 06-01-2006 - 1:56pm
An immature 'boy' such as that, to kick you out while you are pregnant, obviously has no conscious and I doubt financial responsibilities are high on his list. I'd maybe consult with a lawyer just to see if there are any options but I'd move on. He'll get his due when they start coming after him when he doesn't pay child support either.
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Registered: 04-26-2006
Thu, 06-01-2006 - 6:39pm
Thank you so much, your right he will get payed back for what he has done.