Should I go?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-28-2003
Should I go?
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Sun, 06-04-2006 - 8:54am

Hi

Some of you might have read my previous post about a friend of a friend that I met while we were all on weekend away last week. We got on really well, he kissed me a few times but at the end of the weekend didn't ask for my number. He did casually mention a party he is having soon while we were away and asked if I was gonna go. I didn't give him a direct answer just ask what it was for etc. Its been a week since I last saw him and havent heard anything from him (he could have found out my number from friends if he really wanted to). One of my friends wants to go to the party next week and has asked if I will go with her. I really want to see him again and go to the party but I dont want to look too keen turning up if he isn't really interested. What do you think, should I go and if I do how do I behave around him. I dont just want to kiss him again and have nothing come of it?

Thanks x

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-08-2006
In reply to: lisah06
Sun, 06-04-2006 - 3:07pm
Go to the party. If you don't you'll keep asking yourself what would've happened if you had went. At least this way you can find out once and for all if he's interested or not. Just have a good time with your friend. Be friendly towards the guy, but don't hang all over him or go out of your way to be near him. Let him come to you. If he doesn't ask for you number this time around then you know he's not interested.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2003
In reply to: lisah06
Sun, 06-04-2006 - 3:41pm
I'd go to the party and have a good time. If he's there good for you. Talk to him and such. Find out if he's got a GF first and then what his intentions are. If you like kissing him go ahead, but don't expect the kiss to evolve in a relationship. I'd be aware if he uses word like "hanging out", "casual", "not serious" or "friends". Those words usually mean that he's not looking for something serious, just having a good ol' time.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-11-2003
In reply to: lisah06
Sun, 06-04-2006 - 3:43pm

Hi lisa, I remember your original post. I agree with the last poster -- go to the party, see how things go, and if as you're leaving he makes no effort to keep in contact with you once again, you can feel OK in letting it go because you gave it another shot by attending.