Why doesn't he love me?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-21-2004
Why doesn't he love me?
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Mon, 06-05-2006 - 11:21pm

My bf and I have only been together for around 2 months but we were also best friends before hand and are closer than anything. We live together, we joke/talk about our future kids, we talk about our future like where we're going to live and all of that. We are 100% honest with each other and never says anything he doesn't mean. He tells me that he knows he is never going to leave me. I finally admitted (after trying to deny it) that I love him. When I told him that he said that he loved me but he's not sure in what way. And the other day when I was in a horrible state due to personal issues and crying, he told me that he loved me 3 times. But thats the only time he's ever said it. I don't know if he does at all. I don't know what to do. I feel so bad that I love him and he doesn't love me. What should I do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 06-06-2006 - 9:14am

He says he loves you but not sure in what way. I think he is unsure of the depth ness of his love and doesn’t want to lead you to believe it is to the point of where he must feel you are. I wouldn’t take it personal as it has only been two months. Sure you both were best friends before dating but that is friendship love shared but dating is another realm that only over time do you get those deep love feelings. If everything else is good in the relationship don’t worry about how deep the love is in only 2 months.

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