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| Thu, 06-22-2006 - 12:48am |
I recently ended it w my bofyfriend of ten months because he just isnt for me. As you know, I like a romantic...someone who shows care for me like a man. I have other posts..you may know me from them. He knows I want a romantic and have told him how i love flowers and he never gets them for me. after i ended it finally, he pleaded over and over. im like no. u know i wanted flowers. if u cared u would have gotten them by now ..my type of guy, which isnt you..would have tried to win me back by now..sorry. no offense. ur not my type..ur not the one..u r who u r and u cant change. but i wanna se what my type is. So i told him im gonna go on a date and he can too. So after we spoke....he finally sent me flowrs but i think its way too late..he only did it bc he is being threatened by me ending the relationship. i want the flowers.for no reason..the nice things for no reason. he cant gimme that. so i told him it means nothing its too late..ten months too late. the meaning is diff. he didnt wanna get them. i told him...to get them...so after we speak online and he tells me he thinks i dress too sexy since men on the street and in cabs of nyc r giving me a lot of attention latley. he sayd my skirts and tank tops r too low cut and i know they r not. i never show my but or my boobs so much..but he told me his parents thought i dressed too provocative..i dont think s. i dress like im 20 and enjoying my life with tank tops and fashion. He says he loves me and wants me. does he have any place to tell me i dress too sexy after all this and me saying i wanna end it.

You seem to have made up your mind, though I am concerned that you made your decision on a rather minor issue. If he treated you well but just got you flowers, then it might have been a bit hasty on your part. Still, having different visions for your relationship makes lots of problems. It's probably best for you two to part if you are unhappy.
And no, your ex does not have the right to determine what you wear - even when he was your bf and even less so now that you two have broken up. He's just upset about seeing what he wants and can't have. If he continues trying to make up for it, you might be able to give him a second chance, but otherwise just move on.