You know he’s Mr. Wrong when…

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You know he’s Mr. Wrong when…
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Fri, 06-30-2006 - 8:51pm

How would you finish this sentence?


You know he’s Mr. Wrong when…

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Registered: 11-12-2004
Sat, 07-01-2006 - 1:44am

When he somehow forgets to bring money to dinner on the first date and leaves you footing the bill for both.

When he thinks it impresses you to talk about how 'hot' his previous girl friends were.

When his mother expects his girlfriends to wash and fold his clothes, and tells you so.

When he has had more jobs in the last couple years than you have pairs of shoes.

When his idea of celebrating your birthday is to go drinking with his friends....without you.

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Registered: 05-06-2006
Sat, 07-01-2006 - 2:10pm
You know he's Mr.Wrong when.....
1.he tells you where and where you cannot go.
2.he gets fired from a job he had for about a week.
3.he tells you what to wear.
4.he tells you that you cant have any guy friends.
5.he hits you.
6.he flirts with the waitress.
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Registered: 09-27-2004
Sat, 07-01-2006 - 9:26pm

Good idea for a post!

When he's consistently not calling you, shows up late, doesn't stick to his word and expects you to do all the work

disrespects you by pushing the issue of sex even if you feel uncomfortable with the idea

doesn't listen to what you have to say, brushes your opinions and ideas off to the side and refuses to compromise and work on anything

puts you as a low priority on his list

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Registered: 03-09-2006
Sun, 07-02-2006 - 4:00pm

You know he is Mr. Wrong when...

...you make excuses for why exactly it's okay that he's not Mr. Right. I.e. He's just stressed, he's just busy, he's just cranky, but he SAYS he loves me, it's ONLY when he's drunk, he didn't MEAN to, etc. etc.

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Registered: 04-09-2003
Sun, 07-02-2006 - 10:50pm

You know he's not into and Mr. Wrong when:

-After knowing him for nearly a year and a half w/flirting,etc, he invites you over to "hang out" at his apartment to watch a movie and eat ice cream;
-He's still in contact w/his old gfs on a regular basis;
-His ex-wife is still working at his OWN office and won't tell her to go find another job;
-He's dating someone that he never talks about to you about but you find out thru other people;
-He's taking sleeping pills and valium

Just had to vent and see this in black and white so I can wash this man RIGHT out of my head! AHHHHHHHHHHH!

thanks for letting me share:)

Cyclegirl
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Registered: 03-04-2006
Mon, 07-03-2006 - 1:20am

You know he's Mr. Wrong when:

1. He writes you letters about how to be a good Christian, tells you not to swear or drink yet he calls you from a strip club to let you know he's there with his friends. Yes, I dated a guy that did this, lol .

2. He stands you up twice and on the third date arrives late at nearly 1am in the morning to pick you up. I wouldn't answer the door though.

3. You go on a date with a man that tells you he thinks he's Jesus and believes he needs to marry two or three women to have special children that will carry his power. Yes, unfortunately I went on one date with a man that believed this. It was scary and I didn't know what to do.

4. You know him for four days and he has his mother, who is more crazy than he is, call you because you wouldn't talk to him. This also happened to me.

5. He gives you a used Chia head for Christmas. Remember the Ch-Chi-Chia plant pets? They had the heads too. He took it out of his closet and gave it to me as a Christmas gift. I went out with him for a week.

um, there's more but I'm beginning to get flashbacks.

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Registered: 03-04-2006
Mon, 07-03-2006 - 1:21am
and he didn't even wrap the Chia head in gift wrap!, he just handed it to me out of his closet.
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Registered: 04-24-2006
Wed, 07-05-2006 - 3:15pm

WHEN:

Everytime you have an argument he throws his stuff around the house and ends up breaking it. Then he blames it on you later on when he calms down. (I dropped him very quickly!)

When:

He plays video games all day and tells you that he didn't have time to do chores, feed himself or even shower! ( I let that guy go quicker than the guy in the first memory)

When:

He doesn't have anything for you on valentine's day because he's broke. (I know that doesnt sound too bad, but I forgot to mention that he had enough money to buy some pot and a 6-pack for himself!)

When:

He tells you that he "loves" you so much that he will kill himself if you leave him! (Very scary situation! I had to attend college in another state just to get away! While I was gone he thankfully made a "new friend".)

When:

After 4 years of dating and 2 years of living together he still cant bring himself to "buy the cow" until the cow leaves the farm for good! (And this cow ain't looking back!)

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Registered: 06-15-2006
Wed, 07-05-2006 - 7:30pm
Ladies, those were great. ;) I needed that.
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Registered: 07-04-2006
Wed, 07-05-2006 - 8:18pm

Oh where and with what to start...

His biggest "selling point" in his personal ad is that his uncle is a member of a major rock band

When he gets weird if you mention the thought of being exclusive, but when you go out with another guy, he gets all offended.

When he suddenly tells you he's moving - the next day - and a month later you see him around town with some other girl.

When he says "God, I didn't want to ask you this when I was drunk, but, will you be my girlfriend?" - I'm still slapping myself in the forehead for stumbling over that red flag.

When, after 2 weeks of dating, the guy says he sees himself married to you (and your response is horror, not awe)

When you have a discussion about morals and when something is jokingly said about bestiality, he says he sees nothing wrong with it -- and you can't tell if he's the one joking and you're scared to ask. (oh yeah, can't remember the entire conversation, but... *shudder*)

When you tell a guy you don't want kids, and he says "Don't worry, I'm infertile anyway. My old girlfriend got pregnant and ended up miscarrying" (*and he was SERIOUS* ugh, it still hurts my head to even relive that line)

When a guy tells you he speaks to Jesus and can see ghosts.

When a guy stands you up to hang out with his friends and play Everquest.

Why I never threw in the towel and became a confirmed bachelorette or spinster after those guys, I'll never know. If this current relationship doesn't pan out, I think I will reconsider the option!




Edited 7/5/2006 9:30 pm ET by booksandk9s

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