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| Mon, 07-03-2006 - 10:54pm |
Ok so I met this guy 2 weeks before he graduated (from college, where I am going to be a senior this year). I met him at a party at his apt. and we hit it off. I ended up staying over (but not sleeping with him). I planned to leave since I had a final the next day but he wanted me to stay all night. Then the next day he asked for my # and said he would call me when he got back (he was going home for 2 days). So by the time I had finished my final and went back to my computer I found that he had friended me on Facebook (like Myspace just for college and highschool) gotten my sn from that and imed me to ask how my final went. Then he did actually call me when he said he would and we hung out for the next two weeks until he left. It wasn't just hooking up either, we did actually talk and get to know each other. One night I went over at about 2 am and nothing happened for at least an hour because we were just talking. He would also ask me how my day was, hold my hand, and kiss me on the forehead and stuff. And everytime I stayed over he would walk me not just out of his apt, but out of the building (I never did sleep with him thought). We had the same sense of humor, liked the same music and just got along really well in general. We never talked about anything that might happen after he left so, he did and we haven't talked since then. So I'm not sure what to do. Should I just let it go or do something? I know he hasn't done anything, but neither have I (and he's not some ladies man who does stuff like this all the time according to his friends). He's moving to NYC this summer and I might be going there to visit friends at some point, if I do go should I call him? I'm just confused since things seemed to be going well and then we just dropped it.

katiedid0985...
Assuming that the 2 of you are JUST GOOD FRIENDS and NOTHING MORE...Pianoguy thinks you should maintain the 'status quo' for a little while longer.
If you know (for sure) that you're going to be visiting your friends in New York, let the man know when you're coming and ask him if he's interested in joining you for an afternoon lunch or some other social activity? He'll have to tell you YES or NO...or at least make some alternative suggestion?
Just don't 'jump into bed together' one hour after you arrive!
Doing this will cancel out any other activities you've planned with your friends!
Enjoy your trip, but don't come home with a 'souvenir' that you didn't plan on!
Good Luck!
Pianoguy