Need opinions

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Registered: 06-15-2006
Need opinions
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Wed, 07-05-2006 - 7:24pm

I met him on match.com. He is: 26, single, no kids, college grad, makes good money, very sweet, flirtatious, intellegent, charasmatic, VERY attrative :)...

I am: 21, single, no kids, in college, work a crappy job..I'm a nice girl. Not slutty, stupid, anything like that.

I've only met him twice, but we really seem to get along. I'm quite shy and it takes me awhile to open up to people. We kiss and hug though and it's just nice. I'm confused that things are happening quickly, and yet it makes perfect sense.

He's even asked me a couple times indirectly if I'm seeing anyone else.

It's hard for me to believe there may actually be a nice guy out there who's looking for someone like me, ya know?

I know only he and I know what's going on so maybe I'll talk to him, but what do you guys think?

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Registered: 07-05-2006
Wed, 07-05-2006 - 7:47pm
Go with your instincts. It appears as though you may have some self-esteem issues. Never underestimate yourself. If you know you're a good person, others will too. I'm not saying you should dive head first into this relationship but if you're confident that he's insere, go for it with caution.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 07-05-2006 - 7:55pm

I guess I'm wondering what the rush is. If you've only been on 2 dates, and you're just at the kissing and hugging stage, can't you just let things unfold as you continue to date? It takes a LOT longer than 2 dates to figure out whether the two of you are potentially compatible, so I'd just enjoy yourselves and continue to keep things light on the physical side. Time will tell whether he's right for you or not!

Sheri

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Registered: 06-15-2006
Thu, 07-06-2006 - 12:03am
yeah. thanks for the comments. i guess i'm just traditional when it comes to showing affection.