He's not happy anymore
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| Fri, 07-07-2006 - 3:48pm |
My boyfriend and i of a year just broke up last night. He told me he wasn't happy anymore but i did nothing to cause this, he said he may be unhappy with me but it could also be he is also unhappy with his life right now. He said we fight all the time now, we don't, we aren't nice to eachother ever ,that is a lie..i felt like he was making up excuses to leave. He said he had to think about being with me, he said it was "50/50" and he didn't know what to do. Well i didn't want to stay around and wait for him to tell me if i was worth being with, so i left. We talked for awhile afterwards and we both kinda said, "ok..now what?"
He still wanted to talk all the time, be there for eachother, and he even said maybe in the future things will work out, i said you know we'll grow apart right? he said..have we ever? (we have broken up quite a few times before) I am just sick of breaking up and going back out, he said he finally realized we fight over the same things everytime we do go back out, i got mad at that because we never took the time to fix the problems, we just ignore them until they bring us to the point of breaking up. My friend told me he has another girl, another friend say he's immature and doesn't know what he wants yet..
Do i continue talking to him, or run and don't look back?

ariannabelle...
PG thinks there are several possible answers here. One or all MIGHT apply:
1. Your b/f needs a little space from you. There might be stress connected with his job, his health, his outlook on life....any number of reasons? So GIVE HIM HIS SPACE...at least for a few weeks!
2. It's entirely possible he has 'grown tired of you' or feels that he can't commit himself to anyone in a relationship? This is why many of the accusations he's hitting you with (which you completely deny have happened) are being said!
3. It's also entirely possible there's another woman in the picture? If there is...you have NO CONTROL over him or his feelings. But if it'll bring you some form of 'closure', then ASK HIM IF THERE'S SOMEBODY ELSE?
4. And this is a long-shot! All the breakups the 2 of you have been through have FINALLY TAKEN THEIR TOLL ON BOTH OF YOU! So as much as you may think you can 'patch things up' indefinitely...the 2 of you CAN'T!
Pianoguy