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very confused
| Wed, 07-12-2006 - 5:33pm |
This may be a bit long, I'll try to shorten as i go. Anyway, I've been married now for almost 10 yrs it hasn't been the easiest of marriages and recently I told my husband I wanted a divorce. He refused said I could only have a divorce if I left without my children. Never happen. Okay now for my confussing part. A couple of years ago I met someone who was also in a relationship at the time. I was very drawn to him and he made it clear he was also interested. We never acted on any of that though and they moved away. Problem solved, no. I saw his girlfriend at the store one day with one of their children and agreed to come visit the kids and bring mine over to play. So it starts again nothing had changed between him and I. Anyway, a few days ago I get a call from him saying him and his girlfriend have split up and we should get together. I desperately want to be with him, but I am still married. I'm not sure what I should do or if he just wants a piece or what. Help

Marie
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“ Each of us should please his neighbor for his good, to build him up. ”- Romans 15:2
Marie
Thanks for responding.. When you afraid of your husband yes there is a problem. But also I feel there is a grieving time or alone time after a break to find yourself. So with this I would suggest a year alone no dating and focusing on the children and yourself before moving on.
I know many women here do not agree with me but it helps when you look at the posts from women who moved right on to something new versus those who do not it is the best move.
Marie
Verse of the Day
“ Each of us should please his neighbor for his good, to build him up. ”- Romans 15:2
Marie