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weekend rendevous
| Wed, 07-19-2006 - 10:02am |
I just got back from vacation and met the most amazing person while there. We spent every night together and I felt like we really clicked. The last night we were together I found out he is getting married in 2 weeks from one of his friends. When I confronted him about it he kept giving me indirect answers. That night we ended hooking up. I honestly felt a connection with him and it seems that he is not ready to be getting married if he could bring me along for the ride. Being the romantic I am I want it to be like in the movies where I storm in to stop him from getting married. I've only been home for 3 days and I can't get him out of my mind. I wonder if he even feels the same way. Am I just trying to make a fantasy become a reality? Should I just give up and move on?

Wouldn't it be great if life were like the movies? I would have been married many times over to the man of my dreams with my villa in Tuscany..but..that is not to be *sigh*
You are right that this man is not ready to get married, sad part is his future spouse is about to enter a legally binding contract with someone in 2 weeks that is being dishonest with her..he is not ready to committ..that is why he is having sex with you..
Would you REALLY want to be with someone that cheats on his future spouse 2 weeks before his wedding?? Get it into perspective..
Give it a few weeks after the "pink cloud" of vacation wears off..get back into your regular routine..this too shall pass..
Yes, I think you should give up and move on. I understand wanting the fantasy and living happily ever after but they never show the other woman. This woman he plans to marry has probably planned and wanted this for sometime not to mention loves him. Think of if this was reversed. Come on he is taken and if he is not ready to marry then he will call the wedding off and then give you a call.
Marie
It does sound like a movie--Sideways. The guy in that movie clearly had no real feelings for Sandra Oh's character but he did a really good job of pretending that he did, with his wedding less than a week away!
Move on. If he's not a dog, he sure did a good imitation of one.
Sheri
I agree with Sherri on this. There is nothing "romantic" about this situation.
I don't mean this in a mean way, just as a reality check... You didn't "click"; you were horny; he was horny; and he used you for a last bit if tail before he's married. I can just imagine the shook on his face when his little bit 'o stuff (that would be you) went all "You owe me an explanation on him."
Bottom line is... don't romaticize and have sex with guys you don't really know or don't be suprised when you get used instead of the fairy tale.