is my relationship really ending
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is my relationship really ending
| Tue, 07-25-2006 - 12:26am |
I'm four months pregnant at 17. I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. About a month ago there was a girl come to his house looking for him. I never though to ask what for though. He's been going out really late than before. He's never home when I call. And I think his friends may be pushing him up to do that. I really just need some advice. I asked him one time but he said no and that was over the phone. I really just wish he would tell me the truth. It's hard to believe him because of the things I heard about him in the past. I just need some help. I don't know what to do who to believe.HELP!

mrs. bbj...
A few thoughts from Pianoguy:
1. You can't force this man to LOVE you, but given his track record...WOULD YOU HONESTLY WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH HIM? Even if he was a semi-decent Dad to his child?
2. Get whatever free legal advice you can when it comes to child support and issues related to your own piece of mind? Even if the sex between you was consensual, you STILL bear the burden of delivering and rearing your child.
3. Have you notified HIS PARENTS about what he did? You may (or may not) get their support, but if they're aware of the fact that there's a "baby on the way"---it's entirely possible they'll GIVE THEIR SON A LITTLE HELL? .
4. Forget about obtaining support or encouragement from HIS FRIENDS. They're not involved in the pregnancy. So skip around the "road blocks" and go directly to the original source!
Pianoguy