This guy is calling me every Friday

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Registered: 04-14-2004
This guy is calling me every Friday
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Tue, 08-08-2006 - 9:46pm
We work in the same environment but, not the same company. So he calls my work cell. Every Friday for 1 year!!!!!! He calls to talk. I now (several months) dont answer because work is over at 5pm! Sometimes he will call later drunk and leave a message. This guy is married. I've told him I am not interested in having a fling, a drink or whatever he is after unless he is truly available ( told when he first called). What is disturbing is he asked me what I am afraid of ...??? And then said he would never have sex with me!? It seems he just want to make out etc.. But not have any commitment or relationship because he has to be home for his wife at a certain time??? Semi Booty call?? If I am not responding as in not answering the phone why does he continue to call for 1 year? Help I cant change my phone # and he doesnt bother me in any other way.
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Registered: 04-17-2000
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 9:06am

You can get his calls blocked on your cell phone. He is not interested in a relationship just to cheat on his wife. You have told him to not call with it being your work phone they will consider it harassment. I would contact someone to inform them of the situation and also block his number.

Marie


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Marie

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Registered: 07-10-1999
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 1:57pm
Have you tried calling the phone company? There might be a way to block his number so he can't call you. Otherwise, I would say continue ignoring all of his phone calls. Make you sure you NEVER respond to him at all. Eventually, he's bound to get tired of speaking to a machine.
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Registered: 04-14-2004
Sat, 08-12-2006 - 2:37pm
I have been ignoring this guy for a year! Obviously he is calling me when he is drunk. Very sad. I just dont understand why he keeps calling if I ignore him???