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What do I do?
| Sun, 08-13-2006 - 10:43pm |
A guy I have been friends with for about 3-4 months now recently told me he had feelings for me. Problem is he is sort of seeing someone (they are not serious but she is someone I know) The other night he told me that he believed he met her so that she would lead him to me. He said that he wanted to be with me and that things would eventually work out so that we could be together. That was 4 days ago and we haven't spoken since. Do I call him or just wait? I care a great deal for him and don't want to lose him as a friend because I know we cannot be together right now. Help, what should I say???

Marie
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Marie
Marie
Verse of the Day
“ Each of us should please his neighbor for his good, to build him up. ”- Romans 15:2
Marie
Since it's been like a week since you have talked to that guy, I would call him. I don't know how often you to talk, whether it be a few days or weeks, but I would call him up and talk with him. If you are friends, and you talk to each other, then call him.
Another question you should ask yourself is do you see this guy friend as a possible BF? Do you have the same feelings, or not? Or do you just want to be friends, and once he's done with the RL he is in, then you two should talk. You should ask him if he want to pursue a RL with you...(if that's what you want)...or just to be friends for now. Being direct will give you an answer.