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Registered: 05-30-2003
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Wed, 07-30-2003 - 5:10pm
Just a question I thought maybe some of you could help me with. I finally saw OM after about 5 wks, I went to his apt on Monday night after H left for work and got back home before H. It was great because it was 4 hours instead of just 1, and I didn't get any sleep (well worth it LOL). Now I have this opportunity to spend all day Sat. with OM. So I told him the situtation, he is worried now and said am I sure its a good idea (OM lives an hour away so no chance of running into anyone I know). GRRRR First the man wants more time and now when I can give it to him he is worried. I believe the situation was more risky Mon and he didn't seem worried, as a matter of fact I told him I could do it again next Mon. and he said great. I thought Sat. would be great because it would give us about 8 full hours together. I am trying not to be hurt by the way he is reacting but it's hard. This is what he asked for - more time. I did tell him if he was that worried then I wouldn't see him I would make other plans, he hasn't got back to me on that one yet.

Anyone have any opinions or thoughts. Right when you think you have everything figured out, things change again. Thanks for letting me vent and I welcome any advice. DAF

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-05-2003
In reply to: daf101a
Wed, 07-30-2003 - 10:14pm
Hey Lady,

I am in a different situation as you know, I do whatever to be with my MM, but I could care less about H, since I want a D anyway. Sooooo, If you can tell H you need time to yourself, or you're going to meet a friend, or you have some stuff to do at work then It should work for you, sometimes H and I get into a fight so it makes it easier for me to leave cuz I'm mad at him anyway, not sometimes, we're always fighting!

It depends on what you feel comfortable with... OM knows your situation and he'll either have to deal with it and be patient or something else that works for him.

I hope it works out and you get to do whatever you want to do!!

hugs

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-23-2003
In reply to: daf101a
Wed, 07-30-2003 - 10:35pm
Hi DAF,

You know I'm in your corner...do I need to come over there and talk to the boy, or what?

Your BF is wearing me out...an 8 hr day sounds good to me--I ain't had one in over 5 yrs, so I'm getting grumpy.

Just tell the boy to MAKE A PLAN for the day that'll work for him so he won't be so "worried." (Then ask him not to sit&pee in your presence.) Jeeze...

GL,

--LG

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-05-2003
In reply to: daf101a
Wed, 07-30-2003 - 10:41pm
Oh my gosh!! You are too hilarious... DAF take LG up on talking to your OM!! LOL

8 hours is a long time though, if you can get away for 4.. OM will be happy, go see a movie together, or go on a picnic, then on Monday night, sneak out again, and give him the "good stuff!" if ya know what I mean! Make him wait, be flirty, and seductive, and talk a lot about what you'll do to him Monday nite! =)

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-26-2003
In reply to: daf101a
Wed, 07-30-2003 - 10:57pm
Daf,

I believe he has some other thing or person

scheduled for that time. He is looking now

to see if he can get out of it for you.

Just my opinion.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-23-2003
In reply to: daf101a
Wed, 07-30-2003 - 11:25pm
Daf,

Write me at fullmoon322@yahoo.com because something (or someone) is REALLY bothering me on this board.

LG