another night alone

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Registered: 04-02-2003
another night alone
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Wed, 07-30-2003 - 8:39pm
How do we do it, how do all of you deal with the lonely nights, yeah kids are here but, need something more

How do we do it?

Ladyinwaiting40

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Registered: 04-20-2003
Wed, 07-30-2003 - 8:54pm
Body pillows and batteries?!?!

Seriously, I am alone, but I am not lonely. I have my wonderful children to harass me. I have books to read. And chores to do. And when I go to bed at night, I smile because I am in love with the most wonderful person in the world. No, he is not next to me. But, I've gotten used to that. More room for me!

When I do feel lonely and can't call him, I have friends to talk to. Some on the computer, some in real life. I have e-mail pals, some from real life, some from this board. People I can talk to about my day with or without MM.

Yes, man oh man, would I love it if MM could share this life with me. But, I am really enjoying my independence for the first time in my life. I honestly have realized, I do not need a man or anyone else to be happy. I AM happy. I have beautiful children, and am loved and in love with a wonderful man. I have a good job, I am a smart, attractive, newly confident woman.

Life is good. And way too short to spend dwelling on the bad stuff.

CFH

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Wed, 07-30-2003 - 9:03pm
not dealing on bad stuff, lonely is a word I use for miss of touch, miss of him skin to skin, miss of my best friend , my life has no time to be lonely , kids job sstuff around the housee takes up mosst of my time,, it is the precious time the mondaane things with a man I miss,,guess just miss him !!! guess just miss his teder touch, his soft voice, his scent!!! and know he is with W, just watching TV and the world still turns!!!!!!

Ladyinwaiting40

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Registered: 07-05-2003
Wed, 07-30-2003 - 10:32pm
Good for you CFH!

I'm so jealous that you have the independance you have, I hope that I'm right where you are sometime by the end of the year, I want a good job, and contentment with just me and my kids, independance? whats that? Can't wait to experience it.. again, like before I was M.

Great positive attitude!!!!

Thanks I needed that!

Lexy