HE BROKE IT OFF..need advice
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HE BROKE IT OFF..need advice
| Wed, 07-30-2003 - 10:52pm |
my lover broke it off !! why! we had one night of sex and a few days later when i asked if we could do it again he said he felt wierd and he felt bad because he is friends with my bf. Why do guys brag about meaningless sex but when its shoved in their face they dont want it!! way to make me feel rejected! Should i stop flirting with him and ignore him? do you think he would come back?

But whatever you do... make a decision and stick with it.. we'll be here for ya.
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UGH! What I want to write about this jerk is unprintable! That is such a schmucky thing to do! I totally agree with you about how guys (some girls too, to be fair!) brag about meaningless sex -- which I define as good sex, but without the strings and commitments -- and then can't handle it when they are actually presented with the situation?!
In my "don't get mad, get even" mind, I'd make sure to flirt with OTHER guys whenever he's around, so he'll be tortured by what he gave up ;o)
I wouldn't ignore him though -- it could make you seem like a sore loser (sorry, can't think of another term right now -- but you know what I mean). Stay friendly and polite, but shut him down otherwise.
I wouldn't be a bit surprised if he's coming back for more, full of apologies and explanations, within a month's time!
Emmy