going out in public with om?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
going out in public with om?
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Wed, 07-30-2003 - 10:58pm
my husband and i are in kind of an open marraige.he goes out saturdays,me fridays.so i spend all nite with om who lives about an hour away.were planning on living together soon and i want us to do things together like going to dinner or a movie ect..but im worried hubbys friends will see us.om lives in a small town so we would have to go out closer to my home.hubby has an idea of whats goig on but for him or his friends to see me with someone would cause problems because of his ego.which is understandable.but i want to do more than spend all nite talking or having sex.any ideas?
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Registered: 03-29-2003
Thu, 07-31-2003 - 7:58am
Hey LoriLynn, I'm not in an open situation with my husband.. I'm having an A... Anyways, I do go out into public with OM all the time. We live in a big city so bumping into H's friends hasn't happened yet. OM and I go to dinner and such.. But to be honest, we don't touch each other romantically.. We just hang out as if we're friends.. Just in case.

So, for you, perhaps you could just keep your distance from your OM while out in public. Act like friends and not like lovers! :) HTH! ~passion