MM's - W called me
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| Fri, 08-01-2003 - 9:33am |
See last night I went to the casinos and I had several hangup calls and I called my MM and she never answers his phone this time she did and I asked for him and she said he was not in...im like thx. Anyhow at 1am she called and my sis answered the phone and she asked for me and said she and H would like to talk to me nothing bad. My sis said well she is gambling upstairs...and she said oh another thing my H lied to me about. According to MM she asked if I liked casinos and he said NO. OH WELL!!
Anyhow I did not call back obviously but did call my MM this morning and he said that everything was fine...that she just wants to meet me and he said well you have been given her crank calls y dont you ask her. She was like what do you mean..and he said I looked through ur phone u r harassing my friends and they think ur loony. She was like oh well you and her talk way too much...apparently she saw the cell bill...he was like im not going to lie we talk about 90% of the day...I enjoy talking to her. According to her she thinks we are friends..and she said well y dont u invite her to dinner he said she is my friend not yours.
Anyhow she has left me several messages this morning and would like me to call her back. Im so confused. MM said it was no big deal that she wants to get to know me...how come he likes me so much and she does not have any friends...he said im not going to put you in that position he was like tell her NO you dont want to meet her...I said I cant be rude like that...he said fine I will do it for you. I said I feel bad for her...he said I dont. I said well im not going to meet her but I guess I can talk to her on the phone. I mean what could she possibly have to say...IM NERVOUS.
-Sandy

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I'm a bit confused -- is MM's wife on to your relationship? Does she know? Is she fishing? Does she think you're just close friends and she's jealous?
She sounds a bit loony to me, too. I don't think I'd jump at t he chance to meet her. With an obsessive personality like that, things could get weird or out-of-hand. Just my opinion though! Only you know for sure!
I do socialize with my MM's wife. Actually, DH and I have had dinner at their house and gone out together with them, and had dinner with the W on my own, sortof "just us girls" lunches. In my case, I think it makes it easier for MM and I to hang out together on our own, and chat on the phone, without making either of our spouses suspicious.
Emmy
Yes she is onto us...she has asked him about me before and he has told her I am a friend. She actually thinks I am married...which I am not...she had called me once before several months ago and asked why I call MM baby on the messages .. I just said I call everyone babe and stuff like that thats just me and my exhusband and fiance did not like that either. And if she needed to know anything else to talk to H. Anyways just the last few weeks she has been harrassing my phone calling with unknown #'s and hanging up. She has sniffed MM when has gotten home and has asked him what do I have she does not...and if I made more money then she did (NO) and if I bought him stuff (NO)...MM was like no she is just herself.
ARH
be careful,
gurl
I have no idea what to do...I guess really im waiting for her to call me back. This early morning I had like 5-6 missed calls from her and two voice messages. She was like H said it was ok to call you...I just want to say hey...I know im not a priority on your list to return calls...IM THINKING YOU GOT THAT RIGHT!! Im surprised she has not called me at work.
Actually what was funny ... I was getting really irritated with MM because I kept getting these private calls and hang ups. He was like I dont think its all her...Im like dont u defend her...what a coinsidence she calls you and then a minute or two I get a private call. Anyhow he snooped through her phone the other night and saw my number under her aunts name and he changed my numbers around...hehehe...we thought it was funny!! We would love to see the look on her face yesterday when she tried calling just to hang up. So yesterday he confronted the issue cuz she got a hold of his phone and he told her do not answer my phone much less call my friends and hang up on them...she was like im not. He was like please I saw your phone *67 she was like I dont even know how to do that...COME ON...how stupid can she play.
I mean what can she possibly ask me...I figured the only thing I can say if she gets personal ask your H. I mean I feel bad she has no friends and she seems very very nice and very very naive...but still....
So did you catch your H? You said you have been on both sides....just asking...hope u dont mind.
-Sandy
ARH
BUT NOW I HAVE MY NEW MM THAT IM JUST SO IN LOVE WITH...AND I AM SINGLE WITH ONE KID AT THE TIME!! BUT YES I KNOW HOW YOU FELT BECUASE I WAS 20 WITH A NEWBORN...MY SON IS NOW FIXING TO BE 8 IN A FEW YEARS IM 28!!
Im surprised his W has not tried calling me again!!
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