what a suprise i got today from mm...

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Registered: 03-28-2003
what a suprise i got today from mm...
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Sat, 08-02-2003 - 11:28pm
I had to do registration for little league today since i am a volunteer for them and guess who pulls up my mm..i was totally shocked he showed up anyhow we talked for a few minutes and he hands me this jewerly box i open it and inside is a sapphire ring with diamonds around i was complety shocked!!! I didnt know what to say but thanks hun you shouldnt have!! I just had to share my good news with someone!!!!
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Sun, 08-03-2003 - 6:54am
One thing I can say about your MM, he has good taste. That is exactly the ring I wanted and got as a Christmas present from my H. I told him what I wanted and he and DD picked it out. Would not expect MM to give me anything. For me, I would find it inappropriate for him to give me an expensive gift, although I don't think H would even notice if I wore any jewelry that he hadn't given me. If MM ever did give me anything, I would accept it, but at this stage, I don't see anything like that happening. As it is, we have only seen each other once in almost a year.
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Sun, 08-03-2003 - 1:36pm
Hi there I see my mm everyday. I had been looking at rings to replace my wedding rings since i wont be wearing them here soon anymore. He said I thought i would buy you one to show u how much i lobe you. I told him he shouldnt have but i also explained to him that i could wear it when i was with him but i could not wear it all the time unitl i left my h. He has already left his w. I really want to leave right now becaus eim tire dof the emotinal abuse my h gives me but things are a little complicated right now since i dont have a car and my stepdad really doesnt want me back home w the kids. I just cant deal with my h anymore. i am not willing to work these problems out anymore it has been 5 yrs and he is not going to change,

Thanks 4 taking time 2 respond 2 me.

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Mon, 08-04-2003 - 1:08pm
megan, go slow honey. i can feel your eagerness to leave your H all the way over here! but since you have children and no car (and i'm assuming no job), you need to prepare a little before you leave. can you get a job, even part-time? if you can, take $10 (or whatever amount won't be missed) from your paycheck and put it in a secret account. or find a friend who will let you move in and pay rent. make a plan and try to stick with it, no matter how much emotional abuse (as long it's not physical abuse!) H heaps on you. i left my H with 3 small children and we all survived. but i worked two jobs to do it. i only took our clothes and their beds!

your MM will obviously wait a bit for you. the ring was a sweet idea and sounds absolutely beautiful. my MM gave me a charm for my ankle bracelet (i'm different -- didn't want a charm bracelet for my wrist) and my BF wouldn't notice it if i waved it on his face!

take care,

gurl