Husband thinks MM has crush on me
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Husband thinks MM has crush on me
| Mon, 08-04-2003 - 11:03pm |
OMG, you guys.
So witty banter with husband tonite leads to topic of what other people have crushes on us, respectively. H immediately nails it on the head by saying that my MM has a huge crush on me. He can tell by the way he talks to me, etc. He has no problem with it. Can understand why he would, etc. And knows that nothing will ever come of it. (ha)
Of course, I'm equally fascinated and frightened by this insight and pursue it as much as I can without looking suspicious.
But now I'm feeling like I should watch it. Do you think he subconciously suspects and maybe this is his way of bringing it out in the open? My gut feeling is no, he was just saying it. Although, as i have mentioned before, my H does have an uncanny ability to read people. And he really read MM like a book tonite, which was amazing yet worrisome.....
And of course, with the current state of affairs being up in the air with MM, my thought is to give this whole thing up now before it blows up in both of our faces.
So witty banter with husband tonite leads to topic of what other people have crushes on us, respectively. H immediately nails it on the head by saying that my MM has a huge crush on me. He can tell by the way he talks to me, etc. He has no problem with it. Can understand why he would, etc. And knows that nothing will ever come of it. (ha)
Of course, I'm equally fascinated and frightened by this insight and pursue it as much as I can without looking suspicious.
But now I'm feeling like I should watch it. Do you think he subconciously suspects and maybe this is his way of bringing it out in the open? My gut feeling is no, he was just saying it. Although, as i have mentioned before, my H does have an uncanny ability to read people. And he really read MM like a book tonite, which was amazing yet worrisome.....
And of course, with the current state of affairs being up in the air with MM, my thought is to give this whole thing up now before it blows up in both of our faces.

This is my advice, from a woman who has been caught, and it's not fun... although MM and I took a break and patched things back up after both our spouse's found out... it's not good. If you're h has his antenna's up, you need to cool it altogether, with me and MM i'm not all that worried about getting caught anymore because my M is just about over anyway.. but I'm still careful.
All of our friends found out (my H told just about everyone since we seperated over me getting caught and h wasn't too happy) H couldn't even think straight he was such a wreck.
You never know how a man will deal with an A.. never assume what he would do cuz my H went off the deep end. He's still a lil wacko.! =)
If you 100% never want to get caught of raise any suspicion, cool this.. and either regroup later and see what happens.
Your H sounds like a smart guy though. =)
hugs
What's the EMA worth to you? Is it worth getting caught?
Your H may be able to read MM, but he may feel genuinely safe that you would never act on that. On the other hand, he may be watching you carefully, especially now that he's revealed MM's crush and that he's noticed...
If my M were more important to keep intact than my EMA, I'd stop now. And I'd take another look at the guy who is perceptive enough to pay so close attention to how I interact with others...
-lily