Married friend wants me to sleep...

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Registered: 07-17-2003
Married friend wants me to sleep...
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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 4:50pm
with him for money!!! I certainly could use the money, but isn't this crossing some sort of self-respect and/or moral line???? What would you girls do? He and I have been friends FOREVER, and his wife never gives him any. I am not currently involved and need some extra 'bling-bling'. Would YOU do it?
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Registered: 05-24-2003
Tue, 08-05-2003 - 7:49pm
That crosses a line for me. I mean, OM jokes about how he's willing to help me when I'm on my own (for the record, he has helped my family a LOT over the last couple years, already, because of our friendship), and all I have to do is continue giving him head, lol. But we're already involved and intimate and it's kind of a joke, because he knows I'll be doing it anyway, lol!!!

But in your situation, when you've not done anything with him or established an intimate relationship with him, then that would feel kinda wierd.

Just my opinion.

Lucky

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Registered: 06-14-2003
Tue, 08-05-2003 - 7:55pm
LovinLife,

Hey, we all love money! But this smells funny. Unless he is that desparate, or has some sort of self-esteem issue that he thinks this is the only way he could get it? Is he unattractive in some obvious way?

If you want bling-bling, and he wants it, skip the cash. He can show appreciation by taking you out to dinner or shopping or both!

Emmy

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Registered: 07-05-2003
Tue, 08-05-2003 - 7:59pm
ROFL Lucky... he'll get head for free... that was really funny!

My MM gives me money all the time, but we're in love and it's not required, He doesn't leave it on the nightstand before he leaves or anything like that.

Hey if you don't feel like a hooker, you're getting an O... and you really need the money go for it LOL Just make sure it's worth it, and don't get attached!

=)

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Tue, 08-05-2003 - 8:35pm
hello lovinlife sweetie l'm sorry but don't do it . this man sound like creep to me.yes l need money to but lm lady never ever do everthing like that.to me when sleep man single or married you have care about each other .my mm care so much about me and loves me to like love him so much to. good luck sweetie. kimmy
kimmy
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Registered: 06-18-2003
Tue, 08-05-2003 - 10:59pm
Hmmmmm. You tell us. What do YOU think about the prospect of sleeping with someone for money?
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Registered: 06-24-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 1:47am
Hi lovin,

NO! I wouldn't do it... never in a million years. Sure... we could all do with a little extra money... take it from a married woman with two children! but are you really that desperate honey??

I mean if you want to sleep with this guy... and can handle it... then do so... but as someone else said... have dinner or lunch with him or get him to bring wine and dinner when you get together... I'm presuming at your place.

but hey... that's just my opinion.

Sweet

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 9:20am
With all due respect, I think they call that a hooker, call girl, escort, wh*re, etc.

I am NOT calling YOU that, to be clear.

But, let's not beat around the bush here. That is what it is called. Can you live with that label?