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| Tue, 08-05-2003 - 8:00pm |
You replied to my earlier post about the unsupportive family and i just want to say your story sounds SO MUCH like mine!!!My sister and i married brothers(a sister i might add that has always been as close as a twin).We all live within 5 miles of eachother and always got together during the week/weekends for cookouts and such,so we were all very close.My H and his brother have NO family here where we live,their only relatives being their parents who love 800 miles away.So,needless to say,OUR family is the only one they have here.Since the start of my EMA,it feels like my family had been divided in two parts BECAUSE we married brothers.Every family get together,function.etc.etc. he is invited to(we are seperated) and it makes it hell for me because on the weekends he has our kids and my family get together my kids are stuck at home not seeing anyone in their family because he feels out of place with my family now.He has no close friends here that he can do things with and won't get out and make any.It also puts a terrible strain on my sister and i because she feels stuck in the middle,not knowing what to do because her husband blames ME for the break of my marriage.Of course he has taken his brothers side(cant blame him,it IS his brother) and my sister feels trapped in the middle of everyone she loves very much.It's just all so hard and complicated.I wish you can i could talk sometime,if you'd like just send your email addy and maybe we could.God bless and good luck!!!!!!
