When an A is over, what would you do/...

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-29-2003
When an A is over, what would you do/...
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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 10:56pm

When an A is over, what would you do/done to get over it?



  • Find a new "other" to move on? (Immediately)
  • End all A's? Work on yourself... Marriage...
  • Slowly get over your A, and then go on to another A?
  • Other (Please share)


You will be able to change your vote.


iVillage Member
Registered: 07-05-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 12:11am
Since I don't feel my M is salvagable, I would work on self and kids, and definately never be in another EMA!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 12:54am
Hi passion,

I chose to vote other... as I'm not really sure what I would do. Should my EMA end... I doubt that I would be rushing to start up another... and even once over it... I don't the thought of replacing MM is just not something I want to do.

I should say that I would work on my marriage... but who know's where that would be... I think that I would work on myself and give all to my children.

Sweet

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-26-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 8:37am
Hey Passion,

I voted other also! I am not sure...I guess I would just work on me for a while and of course give all to my children....I am unsure if mine will ever fully end...we are just FWOB for now...who knows what the future holds! thanks for the quiz...it is a thinker! LOL Red
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-30-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 10:29am
Passion,

I picked other, just because I don't really know where to go from here. OM and I have gone back to FWOB but that could change one day and I would be back in an A with him. For now I am just working on getting used to the change and filling the hole. I think that I may try to work on my marriage to try and get back to where we were but that will take time. So its really a combination of everything, working on self, kids, working on M but if the situation were to change I would be in an A with OM again.

Thanks for the thought provoking poll. DAF