Received a weird call today

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Registered: 04-10-2003
Received a weird call today
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Wed, 08-06-2003 - 7:45pm
I received this call today that was so weird. Problem is, it wasn't my MM's wife which makes this more frustrating. It really opened my eyes. Now I want to leave my MM alone.

The call was from another man's girlfrined. I talk to this gentleman online all the time and we are really good friends. We are not and never have been intimate. I have told him I am not interested. I have only seen him once, we never meet up, and I call him every now and then. Last time I called him was when his friend died in a fire just over a week ago. So this lady calls me and asked me if I was in a relationship with this man? I told her no. She then tells me they have blocked my email and I am not to contact him anymore. She said it is her boyfriend and she does not want me to talk to him. I asked her why can't I talk to him. She said to me, what business do you have talking to him? I said we are friends and that is it, and I don't see the harm in friends talking.

Well it ended that I will not be calling him anymore. When I called the man in question, he asked me to stop calling him. I could not believe it.

Anyway, I can't believe she knew where to find me, I can't believe she called me and I am so annoyed with him for being such a whimp. I can't stand a man who is a whimp. Now I am really afraid to continue this relationship with my MM.

Any advice would be appreciated.

Really confused lady in love!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 08-07-2003 - 10:11am
hey messedup -- listen girl, let your friend go. obviously he's made his decision and is keeping his GF happy. as unpleasant as it is, you do not matter to him and his life. so just let it go now.

regarding your MM -- why do you want to let him go? are you scared because the wimpy guy's GF found you? obviously she's checking his voicemail and email and got all your address/phone numbers from there. you weren't trying to hide anything with him, but i'm assuming you're more careful insofar as contacting your MM. anyway, i hope so.

focus on what's important to you.

take care,

gurl

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 08-07-2003 - 11:38am
It wouldnt be out of the question to assume the whimpy guy gave your contact number to his girlfriend...when busted men tend to crack and give out information that they shouldnt just to put the heat on you and get it off them...just something to consider...
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Registered: 04-10-2003
Thu, 08-07-2003 - 5:18pm
Thanks ladies for your responses. Just to point out I am not worried about the friend (or so called friend, he can go to _ _ _ _. I figured he used me to get out of any deep trouble he was in with the crazy woman. I don't like the fact that she called me on my job, that she knows where I work. But this too shall pass. I will be ok with all of this. What I am concerned about is the MM's wife finding out. I don't know how I will get out of it. In regards to being more careful with married man, I can only help that he is being careful. I am. i just hope I am not calling his name out in my sleep.

Thanks again for your input.