Do I offer to end it?
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Do I offer to end it?
| Thu, 08-07-2003 - 7:01am |
Well, after the little fiasco yesterday, I know that MM is pretty tore up and upset... just the thought of our significant others finding out was rough. So, now, do I offer to end it? Would it makes things better if I did? I mean, we have already agreed to lay low for a while, but should I offer to break ties completely... other than what we have to have at work anyway? What are your throughts? I know some of you have been here before, so I need your expertise! And if he takes me up on it, how do you mend a broken heart?

You have to do what is best for you.
If you think you should end it then do so.
But don't be suprised if when you offer to end it that he doesn't change his mind.
At one point Joe & I had words, and I told him fine if you don't want to see me anymore ok. We still work together, we still sit on committees, but I will walk away from you and our realtionship.
Changed his mind fast, to I was just trying to protect you. I'm afraid that people are going to see you at my office and talk all it takes is on comment.
Be strong and we are here for you
EJ
so basically, you have to be prepared for the answer if you make the offer. you'll deal with whatever comes.
good luck,
gurl