Bummed Out & Upset....

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Registered: 08-08-2003
Bummed Out & Upset....
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Fri, 08-08-2003 - 12:41pm
...but can't say I'm surprised. Just found out that my lover's significant other is pregnant (I'm his OW). I was suspicious, but that didn't make the confirmation any less painful.

Needless to say my weekend's shot to hell emotionally.

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Registered: 07-03-2003
Fri, 08-08-2003 - 2:02pm
I know how you feel that happened to me too but time does mend a little the pain you will go thru alot of emotional rollcoaster. I hate him for doing for what he did to me I don't know how long you were with him but belive me when I tell you this it will only make you stronger. After the crying and the why did this happen you will beigin to see another side of him that you never thought that existed. I'm here for you if you want to talk I just found out about mine a month ago I'm in the same situation. But be strong cry all you want let it out cause only thenn will you feel better. Belive me..
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Registered: 08-08-2003
Fri, 08-08-2003 - 2:26pm
Thank you. Please do the same if you need me as well.

At first I was determined not to cry, but I did. And you're so right about the other side that shows up. I literally found out this morning, and just with the few comments that we exchanged he seems so nonchalant about the whole thing. Not really understanding why it upsets me so since I knew his situation/being involved with someone. As if it really makes it hurt any less.