I could use with some advice
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I could use with some advice
| Fri, 08-08-2003 - 7:14pm |
My A had been going on until recently when I broke it off. WE were friends first for quite awhile and fought the attraction. We finally gave in and his wife found out. He chose her and tryed to make it work, it didn't take long for them to have the same problems as before even with counciling. We remained friends and up in March it became more intense again. He stopped the physical to sort out his feelings on the situation. I gave him the time but after a month while visiting him at his business he made a comment that made me think he had made a desicion and was just too afraid to tell me for fear of loosing contact with me. I confronted him and he said yes that by not making a desicion he has probably made one. So I gave his gifts back and said , don't call, leave me alone, so on and so forth. The next day he called to check on me to make sure I was ok, and we had words. We later appologized and now are fiends. I know he is hopeful and is trying, but I just can't see how a marraige like that can make it. He told her about the A too. So for two years we have been involved in one way or another and she now knows, and they have real issues, but are not seeing counciling. They had problems before me but I know I deffinately did not help things. But my question is, can a marriage like that be repaired or is it a case of staying together for the family only, and if so how long will it take before he is misserable again and will he come back? I have said no snooky unless he is single.
