STUART1961 -- Question 4 U

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Registered: 08-04-2003
STUART1961 -- Question 4 U
Fri, 08-08-2003 - 11:23pm
It would mean a lot to gain a man's perspective on my situation. I'm new to the board -- just a couple of days -- & would really appreciate your opinion. One recent occurence that is not in my original post is that I phoned yesterday & told him goodbye. He was frantic, insisting that he be allowed to call me back. Even though I told him there's no need for further discussion, that I need to do what's best for my emotional well-being, he called 3 times this morning. The first call was a "sneak" call @ 6:30am, which he's never done before. I broke down tonight & returned his calls. I reiterated the same thing (it's over), but wanted to acknowledge his need to talk. We've been friends for such a long time. And like you & your OW, we truly do love one another...I just realize that love is not enough.

Here's the URL to my original post: http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlmyaffair&msg=32816.1&ctx=128

If you can respond, I'd appreciate it.

Thank you.