Sister Wives - Anyone here involved?

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Registered: 08-09-2003
Sister Wives - Anyone here involved?
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Sat, 08-09-2003 - 8:09pm
I am involved with a MM and his wife in a "Sister Wife" situation and am wondering if anyone here is? Its been difficult for the three of us as he loves both of us and I am very willing to share time, etc. with his W, but she is less than willing, altho she has come to the point that this is how it is or he will divorce her. He has been open about me to her since day one and to his family. I would appreciate feedback from others in the same situation.
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Registered: 04-04-2003
Sat, 08-09-2003 - 10:16pm
Ok, my curiosity got the better of me and I have to ask: what exactly is a "sister wife" situation?
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Registered: 08-09-2003
Sun, 08-10-2003 - 10:11am
It is a shared relationship - the man is married and his wife and I share him (in all sense of the relationship). Time is divided up so each has as normal a relationship as possible.
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Registered: 06-18-2003
Sun, 08-10-2003 - 6:19pm
You should post this on the All Sides of An Affair board - there is a poster there who was in the same situation. I think her name is Lionheart.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 08-10-2003 - 7:46pm
you are wrong yoga, Lionheart is not into sharing her husband and besides she hardly posts there anymore. She allowed the OW to move in with her and her H when she was down on her luck.. she has a big heart. thats all there was to it, i know this first hand b/c her and I corresponded personally some time ago.

hope

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Registered: 06-18-2003
Sun, 08-10-2003 - 10:51pm
i know she is not into it! she hated it and she hated herself for having allowed the OW to move in with them. but i thought that mommyg might benefit from hearing from Heart the personal devestation that the situation caused her. It does NOT sound like a fun situation at all, and mommyg does not seem that happy about it.
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Registered: 08-09-2003
Mon, 08-18-2003 - 7:17am
You misunderstand. I am happy with it, just wishing she could come to terms with it and we could all go forward. She is very into religion and that is a stumbling block for us. I am very capable of sharing and willing to do so. I like not having him around all the time! LOL