Has OM been in your home when H is gone
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Has OM been in your home when H is gone
| Sun, 08-10-2003 - 11:40am |
Who has had their OM in their home, late at night, children sleeping in the house?
| Sun, 08-10-2003 - 11:40am |
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MM meets at my place all the time... it is actually the safest place to do so... only during the day though, I would never ask him over when DH goes out... it would be too risky. MM has been coming here for so long now that it's so natural... I leave the door unlocked these days and he just walks on in... gives me a kiss and asks me how I am. Sometimes feels strange in that it feels so natural and he's so much at home.
I do have younge children and when I met MM, DS was only 14 months old so he didn't know anything. MM would come over after I had put him down for his afternoon nap and maybe he would still be here when I got him up. Once DS got the about 2 and a half and could talk and know what was happening... I started putting him in daycare for a couple of afternoons a week... this also helped with my new study... but MM would arrange to come over those afternoons.
Now... with DD who is now 1 year old... we do the same thing... although he has been here a couple of whole days... but she is still too young to know. Once she hits around 2... I will again do the same as I did with DS... she will be in daycare and DS with be at school... and MM and I will have 'our' time again.
Children are just too risky and I would never take the chance with a 3 year old or older around someone that I should not be seeing... you just never know what they are going to say.
As for DH... somehow... with one of my demanding faults ;) I managed to train him to call me when he leaves work to let me know he's on his way home. He still does to this very day and I have to say that it's come in handy. Neighbours... well... I very rarely talk to any around here and MM and I mostly only chat at the car when I see him off... just a friend. Although one day he was here and it was very hot and he went to venture out for a smoke with nothing on and I just had to mention that maybe the neighbours could see our their kitchen window... that stopped him *lol*
Both of us are very careful... and he will even change where he parks his car so it's not always out the front of my house.
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