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| Wed, 08-13-2003 - 1:32pm |
I was very vulnerable when I met OM and was really wowed by him in our "honeymoon" stage. I thought that he was the answer to my fence-sitting in my marriage. Unfortunately after much manipulating on my part I have still not divorced (even though we are reaching the point...by mutual decision none the less). But I haven't yet ended my affair completely and I am starting to feel like a hypocrite posting on the other board when there are so many people working so hard to end their affairs and I am still trying to figure things out!! But once my marriage is sorted out I won't have to hide anymore!!!
Hope you all don't mind me posting here but I need to get things out or I think it may just drive me crazy!! Thanks for letting me vent.
Karry

Welcome! I've seen you on the other board because I was there too for a while. I stopped posting there because I couldn't go with the NC rule that they really stress, and my MM and I never actually stopped talking. I just haven't been able to let him go and the minute he wants to see me, I let him. I don't really know where things stand with him at this moment, but I'm taking it one day at a time and trying to learn from it all.
We don't mind if you post here. Say what you like. There are some really nice people here who have some very good advice.
H&H
If it makes you feel any better I tend to talk a lot about ending the A on this board...my OM just moved this past weekend, so I don't really know if we will do LD or NC or what.
There is a great mixture of women (and some men) on this board that give great advice and support regardless of where you are in your A...
I hope you stick around,
Alameda
Karry
Karry - - who is learning to embrace life on her own raising her miracle, Carley Paige
Love,
NS
Feel free to post here any time you please... you are most welcome. I think there are actually a few ladies around that are either in the process or thinking about ending their affair on the board, so I'm sure you can help each other out. We also still have a few ladies around that are no longer in their EMA's... but are still here to offer advice and support.
It's a great board with a lovely bunch of people.
luv and hugs
Sweet
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Karry
Karry - - who is learning to embrace life on her own raising her miracle, Carley Paige
Welcome and stay as long as you need our support. My OM and I are in NC right now and I don't know how long it will last. Is our R over, maybe but that could change. I am also one of the so called "fence sitters" deciding what to do. I could put 100% into working on my M or I could contact OM and start up again. OM and I will always have contact because we have been friends for so long so I also have to deal with my feelings. At this point NC is hard but I feel that I need it to decide what I want to do with my life. You can come to us with anything because many of us are in or have been in the same position you are so we understand. Sending you hugs DAF