How often...

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Registered: 04-15-2003
How often...
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Wed, 08-13-2003 - 3:20pm
do you see your MM?

I currently work with MM but in about 3 weeks that will end and I'm worried that we won't see each other much then! :( I'm sure most of you do NOT work with your MMs so I was wondering how often you and your MM find time for each other!? or even just to talk?

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Registered: 07-20-2003
In reply to: imanewposter
Wed, 08-13-2003 - 3:24pm
I only get to see mine about once a week, two if we are really lucky. I always go to his work after he closed though and that's really about to tick me off. I just told him Friday that I wouldn't be doing it anymore, but then who am I kidding...I'd go tonite if he asked...dammit...lol.
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Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: imanewposter
Wed, 08-13-2003 - 3:32pm
l don't get see mm that much anymore he lives in another state then l do. l saw him at news years eve and day he w as staying at my house for holiday . wish so great love spending time with him.l have raelly wondeful mm what he doing right thing you see his W has alzemier's so he has to take care of her which he should do.but still doesn't make easy for me l miss him something horrible.l through met great single guy nope l really don't see anymore.while at housr l ask him if wants me to take care of him and said very big YES only if could really happen be so happy.just thorugh wanting me makes so happy. also having him love me wow he knows how much love him. hugs kim
kimmy
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Registered: 04-30-2003
In reply to: imanewposter
Wed, 08-13-2003 - 3:33pm
We talk with a daily email...average about once a week contact...the summer is harder with kids at home, it's been about once a month...
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: imanewposter
Wed, 08-13-2003 - 3:39pm
I talk to MM on average of 4 times per day. We try to see each other at least once a week, but, that doesn't always happen. It's been 3 months since we have been intimate with each other, and I'm really starting to go crazy.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: imanewposter
Wed, 08-13-2003 - 3:43pm
hey poster -- we try to see each other at least once a week. we don't work together but work in the same general area. however, we see each other near where we live. and we talk at least once a day, sometimes more. today, MM has called three times and drove to see me last night for 10 minutes while i was out shopping.

MM and i have a lot of leeway in our personal lives because of our jobs and his W and my BF haven't picked up on our A because we've kept the socializing to a minimum and when we are all together, MM and i stay far apart so there's no temptation to wink or smile, or whatever!

take care,

gurl

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Registered: 03-05-2003
In reply to: imanewposter
Wed, 08-13-2003 - 3:46pm
When my ema started I saw OM once a week in class but after our class together ended we saw each other varying times. We have went 3 months recently with no intimate contact and limited e-mails. At that time I thought I was on my way to ending it. It seems now to be in a pattern of every two weeks now. It shouldn't bother me because for the moment I am still married and have a lot going on but I would love to see him more!!

Karry

Karry - - who is learning to embrace life on her own raising her miracle, Carley Paige

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: imanewposter
Wed, 08-13-2003 - 4:32pm
We e-mail every day and talk almost every day, IM not as often. because when we do we both get carried away and forget what we should be doing.

I see him alone at least once a week, somethime more. But he stops by my office a couple of other times during the week to chit chat.

I have taken a few days off and haven't seen or talked to him sence Thur. we IM this mornig and he was going out of town. And I have company coming - so don't really know when I will see him may be next week :(

EJ

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Registered: 07-08-2003
In reply to: imanewposter
Wed, 08-13-2003 - 4:46pm
I see my OMM almost everyday and we speak on the phone 5 or 6 times each day! We do not work together but we live only about 2 miles apart. Personally, I think there's an upside to not seeing each other this much because now I'm very emotionally involved with him and its coming back to haunt me. I'm absolutely carrying on two relationships - one marriage and one EMA. I don't recommend it. Good luck!

mo 7-18-10

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Registered: 07-16-2003
In reply to: imanewposter
Wed, 08-13-2003 - 5:02pm
I see my MM pretty much everyday...I am single he is not. So basically he gets out as much as he can. Im usually always around unless I have my son or out with friends!! Which this sunday it was funny he had planned for us to go have dinner and movies and I was already out...I was like communication would be good!! It was funny he made it later that night with a dozen roses!! We try to spend as much time as we can together we really enjoy each others company even if its just talking. Now that school has begun for him and I start next week its going to be more difficult...we are going to have to work on that!!

Wish you the best and hope you continue seeing him just as much.

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Registered: 05-07-2003
In reply to: imanewposter
Wed, 08-13-2003 - 6:36pm
hi there!

i see MM everyday, Monday - Friday after work, 2-3 hrs and Saturday - Sunday, basically the whole day.

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