It's been awhile since I've posted

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Registered: 03-26-2003
It's been awhile since I've posted
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Thu, 08-14-2003 - 8:20am
Hi. I posted way back in January about my affair with my MM. It began 10 yrs ago at work, then I left the state for almost 5 yrs, then when I came back I separated from my husband so I called MM again. He was more that eager to see me again. We live 3 hrs away, so seeing each other is difficult. We got together again in January but have only talked on the phone briefly (maybe once a month)since then. Well, he has made it clear he really wants to see me SOON. Here's my question....has anyone initiated phone sex with their MM and how do you go about it? I asked him the other day if he would be interested and he said yes but it would be his second choice!!! We haven't sent a time to do it yet. I've never done this before...this may sound awkward but I don't know how to masturbate over the phone!! And I dont' know how to talk dirty over the phone to help him 'play' either! I'm feeling embarassed now and I'm afraid to call him. Any advice?
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Registered: 07-29-2003
Thu, 08-14-2003 - 8:45am
This is actually alot of fun. I get really comfortable, usually entirely down to my bra and panties. Then I start by saying some of the things I wish I could do to him and have him do to me. Then I tell him that my #@$$& is so ... and then I tell him what I'm doing, from there just keep your eyes closed and keep talking or moaning, men love the sound of a womans voice especially when she is moaning and talking dirty. I can't really write what I actually say in this post but if you want you can email me at sweetpie5_77@yahoo.com
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Registered: 05-30-2003
Thu, 08-14-2003 - 12:46pm
Donna,

OM and I had phone sex all of the time (we are currently in NC). You can get some great pointers on Ivillage on either Ask the Sex Coach or Sexual Pleasure Orgasims and More. Check those two boards out and see if anyone's post can help you with some suggestions. From the SP board go to Pleasure Member Website and browse there, there is a section about talking dirty to your man and that should give you some suggestions. Just make yourself comfortable and let go, I bet that your MM is just as nervous as you and doesn't know how to start the call off either. Be sure that you are alone and so is he and try and make sure that you won't be interrupted.

Good Luck and keep us posted. DAF