giving the guilt treatment
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giving the guilt treatment
| Thu, 08-14-2003 - 12:18pm |
So i haven't seen MM for almost two weeks, i'm totally frustrated. Next week me and him will be off but seperate, no contact at all. We planned to see each other tomorrow. He called me early today that maybe he can't cause he might work late, not too sure. After that call,my head just starting hurting so bad, i couldn't even keep my eyes open or talk to anyone. I've taken some pills to help this stress headache to go away, but nothing yet. So he called 15 minutes ago, and i said that i couldn't talk to him, because of the pain i'm feeling, he insisted on knowing why, and i said because of everything. So now he knows it's because of him, but i know he's really busy right now at work, and says he has to go, and i'm like, whatever...
Have i done the right thing telling him the real reason of all the stress i'm feeling right now? I'm not going to call him, but i'm scared that he won't call me too. I don't know what to do. Can anyone give me some insight on this?...
Have i done the right thing telling him the real reason of all the stress i'm feeling right now? I'm not going to call him, but i'm scared that he won't call me too. I don't know what to do. Can anyone give me some insight on this?...

let me sit on thet knowledge that his selfishness has given you a headache and is causing you pain. in my experience, he will feel badly enough to call you and say he will see you tomorrow no matter how "busy" he is.
if he doesn't, then you should realize that he doesn't care very much for you and your needs. you'll have to make your own decision from there.
regardless of whatever happens, try to enjoy your week off. relax, do something you enjoy. have a wonderful vacation.
take care,
gurl
take care,
gurl