Is it wrong to not feel guilty?
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| Wed, 09-24-2003 - 12:36pm |
I have no intentions of leaving my H, and when it comes to my OM we have talked and although he says never say never we have made no plans to one day be together. We are happy to have what we can with eachother if it means not disrupting the lives of our loved ones.
My marriage is a good one, however I have always been independent, and as time passed on my H began taking advantage of that and I of his independence and I believe somewhere along the way we forgot to take eachothers needs and desires into account.
My H and I are like Best friends, and yet still there are times when we are very passionate about one another. But again, he has different priorities than mine and would sooner be out snowmobiling or racing than on a romantic weekend with me. So I went on never looking for anything and found OM. And yet I still love my husband and have no guilt for betraying him or are vows.
I am I nuts? LOL

Edited 12/1/2003 9:11:06 PM ET by stillwingy
there have been many threads recently about loving two people at the same time. it can be done -- many of us on this board are doing it right now.
enjoy and take care,
gurl
I guess I'm doing this because I'm in love, and why would being in love make me feel guilty? I do feel a bit guilty for him though, since he has more to lose than I do-he still has a teenager at home, and is basicallly happily married.
Legs
Hi Sweett and welcome,
You could also ask the question... isn't what we do wrong??? and to any person looking from outside... the general answer would be yes.
Sweet
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If it's wrong not to feel guilty then I'm very wrong. I can't believe I don't , but I really don't. Then again I don't know his wife, or what she looks like I think that would make things more complicated. I truly feel that we are two mature adults who found each other irrisistably attracted to each other. Neither of us get our needs met at home and we fulfill each other's wildest dreams. We are not "in love" but we are definitely "in lust" with each other.
If our needs were met at home I don't know that either of us despite our attraction and chemistry would have acted on it. Husbands and wives should fulfill each other's sexual needs!
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