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| Wed, 09-24-2003 - 4:56pm |
have 106 views, and not one response. I try to read each post, but my time is really limited now. It's really a horrible to be scared of something that is about to take place and not one person respond.
It's like calling the suicide hotline, and being put on hold. I know everybody is not going to feel the way I feel. I know a lot of my post sound wishy washy. But, I have been in the EMA off and on, mostly on for 16 years. And, I have experienced the ups and the downs. I know a lot of people just don't understand, my R and that's OK.
I have never in my life been this confused. I don't have anyone else to share my thoughts with, but the people here.

Hugs...
let him go. he has proven to you and apparently to many other women that he is not trustworthy or faithful. maybe it's redundant to say, but please let him go. your OM does not respect you and certainly isn't leaving his M for you. you cannot control anything but yourself. sounds to me like he wants to play around. do you want those leftovers??
please get off the rollercoaster with OM. make YOURSELF happy!
jmho,
gurl
I've given much thought to the idea of just letting this whole EMA go up in flames, but I always end up backing out. I guess I want to give it one last try, to see if things will be different this time. Deep inside I don't think they will.
But, thanks very much for responding:)
i know it's hard to let go of the dream, but sometimes you have to cut your losses and just stop. it's the only way to stem the bleeding from your heart! women are such caretakers and fixers -- you want to give it "one more try to see if it will be different." do you really think OM will treat you any differently? i wish i could be more positive, but i just see you getting hurt feelings and disrepect down the road if you stay attached to OM. maybe i'll be wrong. i would hope so for your sake.
take care,
gurl