What constitutes "CHEATING" ??

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-12-2003
What constitutes "CHEATING" ??
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Wed, 09-24-2003 - 7:01pm
What exactly do you guys think CHEATING is?

DO you have to be physical to CHEAT?

CAn you be in love without ever being physical?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Wed, 09-24-2003 - 7:08pm
hi sweetie what me and mm done is cheating we had kiss and we touch alot he gives me special loving hugs so that is cheating and having affair no way want to do in front W. anything you don't want to your W OR H to see that is cheating. that how l see it sure alot other girls can help you to. hugs kimmy
kimmy
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-24-2003
Fri, 09-26-2003 - 4:30pm
I would personally only define physical acts as cheating. Sex is definately cheating and just kissing is on the border line. But loving somebody else is your own business, and is not cheating.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-23-2003
Fri, 09-26-2003 - 4:39pm
Everyone will see things differently, but I personally believe that cheating is defined when having an emotional or physical relationship beyond friendship with someone other than your S/O.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2003
Fri, 09-26-2003 - 10:55pm
How I define cheating is anytime you spend physical time (ANY PHYSICAL TIME) other than spouse or siginificant other. Whether it be kissing, holding each other, or sex, cheating is cheating. The bottom line is this: "Would you be doing all these actions in front of SO if it wasn't cheating?"